The Four Best Anal Sex Tips
Anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that site, which makes the sensation unique,
stronger and quite possibly orgasmic.
ANAL SEX TIP #1 - Play it safe.
Anal sex can be safe, but you need to take some precautions.
Rule number one: Anything that touches the anus should not be touching anything else. Never take your penis out of the anus and put it into the vagina. That can lead to
serious infections and other complications. After any kind of anal play, you should immediately change condoms and wash the relevant body parts thoroughly.
ANAL SEX TIP #2 - Use lots and lots of lube.
The vagina produces its own lubricant, but the anus does not. So, you need to supply the lube, one way or another. On top of that, using lots of lube is good
and using even more lube is better. It makes the whole experience much more pleasant for both partners. This is the number one mistake people make in having anal sex. They
do not use enough lube. All kinds of lube are used in anal sex. This can range from spit to Vaseline to some silicone based lubes.
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I strongly recommend spending some money on a good quality
water based lube. Remember that an oil based lube like Vaseline will degrade the latex in a condom, completing destroying its usefulness. I recommend KY Jelly (especially the warming one).
I do not recommend any specialty lubes that are meant to numb the woman's sensation. Anal sex is not meant to be painful. It if is painful you need to figure
out what is wrong, not mask the pain with a topical anesthetic.
ANAL SEX TIP #3 - Work your way up.
Start with your fingers. Try one and see how your partner reacts. Then add another. Initiate your partner slowly into the joys of anal pleasure. Try it while performing oral
sex for an extra thrill. Be sure not to forget the lube.
As your partner gets used to your fingers, you might want to try a butt plug or a small dildo. Go shopping together to get one she thinks that she can handle.
ANAL SEX TIP # 4 - Turnabout is fair play.
Whether you are trying to convince someone to have anal sex or are just trying to figure out how to do it in a gently way, there is no better preparation than exploring anal play yourself.
Now don't stop reading, you may end up enjoying it, as much as your girl will.
Your partner is much more likely to consent to anal sex if she has seen that you are open to being on the receiving end as well.
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Encourage her to use her fingers inside of you. Once she has seen
that you are willing to do it, it will be hard for her to resist exploring it as well.
Of course, anal play on yourself is a great way to learn how anal sex feels and to learn how to make it more comfortable for your partner. You might also be surprised at just how much you like it.
And, guys, you can like it!
WHAT WOMEN LOVE ABOUT IT
Here are some things that women really love about anal sex.
New Territory
Believe it or not, women are just as excited as you are to be venturing into anal sex. They may be apprehensive, but if you have the right moves, you will be getting
two holes in one. She may even end up preferring it from behind.
Finding fingers first
A caring guy starts slowly with his finger until his girl is relaxed and feels comfortable. Once she is at ease with your fingers, you can apply plenty of lube
and a condom and finally penetrate her.
Rubbing the cheeks
If there is anything that can help women relax and feel at ease, it is when you rub her butt cheeks softly, spreading them and then squeezing them together. Don't just head for the hold and disregard the rest of her body. Her body is there
for the taking .. so take it!
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Massage her back, hold her waist
Give the rest of her body some attention while penetrating her. This will work to both of your advantage. Her rectal muscles will relax so that you can enter her more
easily, and you will enjoy the tight entry as well as her smooth skin.
Pain is sometimes pleasurable
In all honesty, why do you think women even let you near thier butt if they know it is going to hurt? It is not because you have been begging. And it is not because she thinks that her vagina is
as loose as a porn star who has set the record for the most partners in one night. It is because she wants to know how it feels. She knows that pain is
inevitable, but that is just part of the thrill.
So there you have it. It is very important to remember that everyone likes sex, and you need to be willing to give your women some extra attention and take it slow when you want to take the road
less travelled.
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